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Articles in English about Relationship and Couples Coaching

Par-coach Mikael Hoffmann

www.parforhold-parterapi.dk/couples-therapy-copenhagen

Stop OVERTHINKING and save your relationship!

  • Anslået læsetid: 11 min read

Thinking and feeling are important and necessary parts of human life

In this article, you will gain insight into how overthinking and being overly sensitive can lead to feeling trapped in yourself and your relationship.

The causes of overthinking, insecurity, and uncertainty are explained, as well as why one can feel anxious in a relationship.

Finally, there are guidelines on how to manage and resolve the issues of overthinking.

If it’s too difficult to solve the problems on your own, there is, however, great help available from professional couple therapists and coaches.
You just need to carefully choose the person who can help you in the best way.

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What’s the worst thing you can do to your partner?

  • Anslået læsetid: 14 min read

Poor Communication in Relationships

Why do things sometimes go so terribly wrong?
Without us knowing why or how to handle it?

The American psychologist John Gottman has thoroughly studied videos of conversations from more than 3,000 married couples.
He discovered that certain types of behavior have a significant impact on the durability of a marriage.
The couples were filmed while talking to each other, and then Gottman and his team measured, counted, and recorded 20 different categories of emotional expressions – such as sorrow, anger, and frustration.Read More »What’s the worst thing you can do to your partner?

Structure in everyday life

  • Anslået læsetid: 17 min read

The Bad Habits – If There Is NO Structure in Your Daily Life

Many married couples/partners develop daily habits and routines over the years that can be harmful or even downright destructive for a healthy relationship.
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However, experience shows that just a few adjustments in daily life can significantly improve the relationship.
It’s about creating some fixed anchor points or pivot points with structure, focus, and presence throughout the day.Read More »Structure in everyday life

Action steps

  • Anslået læsetid: 3 min read

questions for the Relationship10 Questions for the Relationship

How to talk about the deep and important questions with your partner.

If it is too difficult, it might be a good idea to do it together with a third person who has no emotional agenda with either of you, but who, for example, offers couples therapy. Preferably choose a professional couples therapist in Copenhagen with experience.

You can of course also try it yourself.
Copy the questions for your relationship below in two copies, and answer each individually. Then compare your answers with each other and talk about how you can get closer to your common goals and what it takes to overcome the challenges.Read More »Action steps

Understanding, Trust, Safety, Respect for each other and Forgiveness

  • Anslået læsetid: 14 min read

Rediscover Love in Your Relationship

In this article, you will learn about the five fundamental elements of a good relationship.

You will also get some good advice on how to improve your relationship.

Setting boundaries and healthy communication will be described, as well as 9 specific tips on how to increase trust, security, and respect with your partner.

If it is too difficult to change some things in your daily life and the dynamics between you, you might consider counseling for married couples near me in Copenhagen or online on Skype to speed up the process and make it easier for yourselves.

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Couples Therapy – What Is It?

  • Anslået læsetid: 8 min read

A Better Relationship

What is couple therapy?Do you experience that the relationship can be hard – with misunderstandings and perhaps arguments about disagreements?
If you feel unseen and unheard, and have difficulty understanding your partner’s way of being, you are not alone.
When two different people live together, conflicts will ALWAYS arise at some point.

In reality, it’s not the problems that are the problem.
Rather, it’s the way you handle and “land” the problems that create challenges, pain – and divorces.

Couple coaching is about changing habits and creating understanding and aligning expectations – perhaps with new and different ways of communicating with each other.Read More »Couples Therapy – What Is It?

Submission and dominance in the relationship

  • Anslået læsetid: 7 min read

What Does It Take to Create a Happy Relationship for Both Partners?

dominant partnerHere are some good tips for the MAN who is frustrated in his relationship.

We are becoming more and more aware that we do not want to feel bad.

Fortunately, many people live happy lives, but there are still about 40% who are so miserable in their relationships that they end up divorcing.

Others put up with the most horrible situations – perhaps because the alternatives seem too frightening.Read More »Submission and dominance in the relationship

A farewell letter

  • Anslået læsetid: 5 min read

End of the Year

farewell letterFor many years, I have used December 31st to look back on the past year and reflect on what has happened.
Together with my family, we look at pictures and talk about the people we have met and what has mattered to us.

On January 1st, we look forward to the coming year. I make plans and think through strategies.

And I write a farewell letter!

I got the idea from one of my friends in the military.
He told me that deployed soldiers, before they leave, always have to write a farewell letter to their loved ones, in case something happens to them and they don’t come home alive.

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The five layers of communication in the relationship

  • Anslået læsetid: 14 min read

How You Can Practically and Effectively Improve Your Relationship!

Couples therapy that works with strategy, technique, and concrete tools
Overview: In this article, you will get a thorough review of some concrete communication strategies and tools – depending on how well or difficult you find it to be with each other in given situations.

Most couples therapists help couples in crisis with general emotional problems.
There is, of course, nothing wrong with that, and it is perfectly fine.
There are thousands of couples therapists spread across the country.Read More »The five layers of communication in the relationship

Regain trust in your partner

  • Anslået læsetid: 4 min read

How to Restore Trust in a Relationship?

And how to handle betrayal if it has been broken?

If there has been a betrayal or breach of trust in the relationship, and your partner has made a mistake, it is important to rebuild the trust, even if it can be a big challenge that requires both time and resources.
Especially if you need to regain trust after infidelity.Read More »Regain trust in your partner